Intro
We’ve all tried them—style quizzes, Pinterest boards, aesthetic labels like “clean girl” or “cottagecore.”
And yet… our closets still feel like chaos.
If you’re done trying to fit into a “style type” and ready to actually find your own, this is for you.
1. Look at What You Actually Wear (Not What You Save)
Your Pinterest board is cute. But your laundry basket? That’s the real you.
Pull your 5 most-worn outfits. What do they have in common?
- Colors?
- Cuts?
- Layers?
- Comfort level?
✅ Real style lives in what you reach for when you’re tired.
2. Identify the Clothes That Make You Feel Safe
Yes—safe.
Style isn’t just about looking good. It’s about feeling like you can move, speak, and be seen… without armor.
Ask: “What outfit made me feel like myself this week?”
That’s where your style starts.
3. Let Go of the Idea That It Has to Be “Aesthetic”
You can be 40% softcore, 30% normcore, 30% messy bun in a grocery store hoodie—and still stylish.
Your style doesn’t have to make sense to anyone else. It just has to feel honest.
4. Think in Moods, Not Labels
Instead of boxing yourself into “edgy” or “feminine,” try this:
“Today, I want to feel grounded.”
“Tomorrow, I want to feel sharp.”
“Friday, I want to feel flirtatious.”
Let your outfits match your emotions, not Instagram hashtags.
Final Thoughts
You don’t need a quiz to tell you your style.
You already know—you just haven’t put it into words (or worn it enough) yet.
Start small. Get curious. Your style isn’t out there—it’s already in your drawer.